It has been a while since I have written a blog. I took time off for family and then it seemed as if we all took turns fighting something. A family in our church had a sudden loss. I thought my next blog would be the poem that has been floating in my head since then. However, last week I was asked by a family member how I had managed to forgive my abuser. That thought and the answer to it has been rolling around in my brain since.
I have always told people if you want to forgive someone you have to begin praying for him/her. I know it is not easy but hey what Jesus did for us was not easy and His word tells us we must forgive to be forgiven.
This last week I realized there was another component that I had forgotten about. You see in my memory I had completely forgotten the first step I had to take. I had to realize first that God loves me and is in control of my life. However, we live in a fallen world and people make bad choices daily. Before I got to the point I could pray for someone else I had to pray for forgiveness of my sins and healing for myself.
I then had to cling to the verse you see posted on this blog and my social media accounts. I firmly believe that what Satan intended for evil God can and does use for good. It amazes me the times I have been told that words I have spoken or written have touched others lives. It is all God. He knows our pasts and our future. He directs our presents when we allow him to.
So today my readers if you are still struggling to forgive I ask you have you taken the steps necessary. The keys are in your hands but you must use them. Remember all have sinned and that includes you. The power you receive when you take the step of repentance is wonderful. Next concentrate on His word and his promises. Find the verse that speaks to your heart. Meditate on it and believe in it. Then pray for the salvation of your abuser and you will feel a weight lifted off of your shoulders. With these keys you can unlock a door that leads to peace and comfort. You may still have bad moments, days or even weeks but cling to his promises and that will get you through them.